Deadheading: The Quick Snip That Keeps Flowers Blooming

         Deadheading simply means removal of spent blooms

I was in the garden trimming off a few spent zinnia blooms the other morning—nothing fancy, just a quick tidy—when it hit me: this would be a perfect next topic. Because chances are, you’ve done this too… even if you didn’t know it had a name.

That simple little snip? It’s called deadheading. And it’s one of the easiest ways to get more flowers from the plants you’re already growing.

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What Is Deadheading?

Deadheading is simply the removal of faded or spent flowers before they have a chance to form seeds. That’s it. No mystery. No drama.

Why does it matter? Once a plant starts producing seeds, it thinks its job is done. By removing old blooms, you gently tell the plant, “Not yet—keep flowering.” The result is more buds, more blooms, and a longer flowering season.

And don’t worry—you’re not harming your plants. You’re helping them focus their energy where you want it most: flowers.

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Why Deadheading Is Worth the Effort

This is one of those garden chores where the reward far outweighs the effort:

• Encourages more blooms 🌸

• Keeps plants looking neat and fresh

• Extends the flowering season

• Reduces unwanted self-seeding

• Takes just minutes to do

In other words: maximum payoff, minimal work. Gardeners love that kind of math.

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Flowers That Respond Beautifully to Deadheading

Many flowering plants truly shine when you deadhead regularly. Some favorites include:

• Zinnias – Snip one spent bloom and they’ll send up several more

• Marigolds – Bloom longer and look tidier with regular deadheading

• Petunias – Stay full and colorful instead of leggy

• Cosmos – Light trimming keeps them blooming freely

• Vinca / Periwinkle – Especially helpful in keeping plants neat

• Roses – A real star when it comes to deadheading 🌹

Roses, in particular, respond extremely well. Removing faded blooms encourages repeat flowering, improves the overall look of the bush, and helps direct energy into new buds instead of seed(rosehips) formation. If you want roses that keep performing, deadheading makes a noticeable difference.                                        (Bonus tip: Some plants are “self-cleaning” and drop old flowers on their own—but many garden favorites appreciate a helping hand.)

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How to Deadhead (No Fancy Tools Required)

You don’t need anything special:

• Soft stems? Your fingers work just fine.

• Tougher stems? A small pair of snips will do.

Where to cut:

• Remove the spent flower just above a healthy leaf or a visible new bud.

No rulers. No perfection. Plants are wonderfully forgiving.

           
 
          
                                                             Stages in deadheading roses

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One of the Quickest Garden Chores You’ll Ever Do

Deadheading is perfect for those short garden moments:

• A quick stroll with your morning coffee

• Five minutes before dinner

• A peaceful pause while checking on your plants

It’s fast, oddly satisfying, and the results show up quickly. Few garden chores give you such an instant sense of accomplishment.

🌸 The Lazy Gardener’s Deadheading Cheat Sheet

Goal: More flowers. Less effort. No overthinking.

What you’re doing:
Snipping off faded blooms so the plant keeps producing new ones instead of seeds.

Why it’s worth the tiny effort:
✔ More blooms (the real prize)
✔ Plants look fresh and tidy
✔ Longer flowering season
✔ Stops surprise seedlings everywhere

How to do it (the lazy way):
👉 Pinch or snip off the dead flower
👉 Cut just above the first healthy leaf or bud
👉 Done. No measuring. No perfection required.

Tools:
✋ Your fingers (soft stems)
✂️ Small snips if the stem is stubborn
(Fancy tools may remain safely ignored.)

Flowers that LOVE this treatment:
🌼 Zinnias — instant comeback queens
🌼 Marigolds
🌼 Petunias
🌼 Cosmos
🌼 Geraniums
🌹 Roses — absolute overachievers when deadheaded

When to do it:
During a casual garden wander
While holding coffee
When avoiding housework 😌

Time required:
⏱ About 5 minutes
⏱ Satisfaction lasts much longer

Pro lazy tip:
If blooms slow down, snip first — panic later.

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Final Thoughts

It still amazes me that something as simple as removing a faded flower can spark a whole new round of blooms. No fancy tools, no complicated steps — just a quick snip while you wander with your morning coffee.

And to think, this whole topic started with a few zinnias that refused to quit blooming.

Small snips. Big bloom energy.

 Happy Gardening! ✂

The Grey-Haired Gardener

🌱 Smart Ways to Use Banana Peels in the Garden

Banana peels          Credit : Julia Kuzenkov  from Pexels.com

There’s no single “right” way to use banana peels. The best method depends on your garden style, space, and tolerance for a little mess.

1. Chop & Drop

This is the easiest method.

Chop fresh banana peels into small pieces and bury them shallowly in the soil around plants—keeping them away from the stem.

Best for: tomatoes, peppers, roses, fruit trees

Skip this method if: pests or flies are a problem, or if the soil surface stays very wet.

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2. Composting Banana Peels

Banana peels break down well in compost and add useful nutrients to the finished mix.

• Chop peels to speed decomposition

• Balance them with dry materials

• Worms absolutely love them

This method keeps things tidy and works well for gardeners who prefer a hands-off approach.

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3. Banana Peel Tea

Soaking banana peels in water for 24–48 hours creates a mild nutrient solution.

Use it to water soil—not leaves.

This works best for container plants and flowering crops, but it should be seen as a gentle soil boost rather than a fertilizer replacement.

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What Nutrients Do Banana Peels Actually Provide?

Banana peels contain small but useful amounts of:

• Potassium – supports flowering and fruit development

• Phosphorus – encourages healthy root growth

• Calcium & magnesium – contribute to overall plant structure

Think of banana peels as soil support, not a quick fix. They work slowly and are most effective when part of a broader soil-building approach.

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The Nerdy Option: Oven-Dried & Ground Banana Peels

For gardeners who like things neat, controlled, and a little nerdy, drying and grinding banana peels is a great option.

Drying removes moisture, prevents smell, and makes the peels easy to store and measure.

                                       Banana peels cut into smaller pieces and dried in the oven

How it works:

• Dry peels in the oven or sun until completely brittle

• Grind into flakes (powder is optional, but not necessary)

• Store in an airtight container

This method is especially useful in warm, humid climates where fresh peels can attract pests quickly.

                                                     Banana peels dried and ground into flakes 

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How to Use Banana Peel Powder in the Garden

A little goes a long way.

• Potted plants: sprinkle lightly into soil and water in

• Garden beds: mix into the top layer of soil

• Compost: use as a nutrient-rich booster

Avoid overuse—this is plant seasoning, not soup.

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What Banana Peels Won’t Do

To keep expectations realistic:

• They won’t replace a balanced fertilizer

• They won’t fix poor soil overnight

• They won’t cure pests or plant diseases

Banana peels work best as part of a long-term, soil-focused gardening habit.

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Simple • Smart • Sustainable Takeaway

Using banana peels in the garden is about paying attention and using what you already have.

It reduces kitchen waste, costs nothing, and gently improves soil health over time. Gardening doesn’t need to be complicated to be effective.

And yes—sometimes that means baking banana peels.

Happy garden dance encouraged.

Happy Gardening!

The Grey-Haired Gardener

How to Make Fresh Coconut Milk (Caribbean Style)

Crack a coconut and you’ve just opened the door to half of Caribbean cooking — here’s how to turn that magic into fresh coconut milk.

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1. Why Coconut Milk Matters in Caribbean Cooking

Coconut milk isn’t just an ingredient in the Caribbean — it’s a tradition. It brings richness to savoury dishes like pelau, callaloo, oil down, and curry chicken, while also adding creamy depth to sweet treats like paimee, ice cream, sweetbread, and coconut mousse.

Unlike canned versions, fresh coconut milk delivers a warm, nutty flavour that brightens anything it touches. I prefer to use freshly made coconut milk in all my recipes because it just makes everything tastes better! You just can't beat that rich creamy coconut flavour. Making your own coconut milk is not rocket science.  Anybody can do it.  It just takes a little time and I'm not gonna lie to you: it's a little bit messy... but messy good! 

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2. What You Need

To make authentic coconut milk at home, all you need is:

• 1 dried coconut (brown shell)

• Warm water

• A blender OR grater

• Strainer, cheesecloth, or fine sieve (I use an organza bag)

• Bowl for collecting milk

                        Photo:  A  dehusked coconut               Credit: Shamela Rambadan

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3. Step-by-Step: Making Fresh Coconut Milk

Step 1: Crack and Clean the Coconut

Break open the coconut, pour out the water to drink or use later, and pry out the white flesh. Peel off any brown skin if you prefer a lighter colour, though it’s not necessary.

Photo: Coconut cracked open with pieces of flesh.        Credit: Shamela Rambadan

Step 2: Blend or Grate

Cut the flesh into small pieces.

• If blending: Add warm water just to cover the pieces.

• If grating: Grate finely, then pour warm water over the grated coconut.

The warm water helps release the oils and flavour — the “good stuff.”

Photo:  Coconut pieces cut into chunks before placing in the blender        Credit: Shamela Rambadan

Step 3: Strain and Squeeze

Pour the mixture through a cheesecloth or fine sieve (I use an organza bag) and squeeze firmly to extract the milk. This is your first press — the richest and creamiest.

If you need more coconut milk, return the leftover “coconut pulp" to the bowl, add more warm water, mix, and squeeze again. This second press is lighter but great for soups or curries.

 Photo: Squeezing blended coconut over a bowl      Credit: Shamela Rambadan

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4. How to Use Your Coconut Milk

Your fresh milk is ready! Use immediately or keep refrigerated for 2–3 days. It will naturally separate — just stir before using.

Popular Caribbean uses:

• Pelau

• Callaloo

• Oil down

• Pone / paimee

• Ice cream & sorbets

• Coconut bake

• Stews, fish broth, and curries

Tip: First-press coconut milk gives the richest flavour in desserts and stew bases. Second-press is lovely for simmering and thinning down sauces.

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5. Can You Freeze Coconut Milk?

Yes! I divide into small portions (½ cup or 1 cup) and freeze. It may separate when thawed, but a quick whisk brings it right back together. Perfect for meal prep.

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6. Making Coconut Cream (Bonus)

For extra thickness (think: ice cream, mousse, or a curry), use less water when blending. The thicker extract settles on top after chilling — that’s your natural coconut cream.

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7. A Simple Coconut Dessert to Try

A Simple Creamy Coconut Dessert (Using Fresh Coconut Milk)

Fresh coconut milk isn’t only for savoury dishes. It’s also the quiet secret behind many creamy Caribbean desserts. This simple dessert is included here to show just how easily fresh coconut milk can be used in sweet recipes — without turning this into a full dessert blog.

What You’ll Need

• 2 cups fresh coconut milk (first press for best results)

• 2–3 tablespoons sugar (to taste)

• 1 tablespoon cornstarch or arrowroot powder

• Pinch of salt

• Optional flavouring: vanilla, grated nutmeg, or cinnamon stick, 

How to Make It

1. Set aside about ¼ cup of the coconut milk and mix it with the cornstarch until smooth.

2. Gently heat the remaining coconut milk with sugar, salt, and your chosen flavouring.

3. Once warm (do not boil), stir in the cornstarch mixture.

4. Cook on low heat, stirring constantly, until thickened and creamy.

5. Remove from heat, adjust sweetness if needed, and pour into small bowls.

6. Allow to cool, then chill until set.

A Quick Coconut Milk Note

Many modern recipes use canned coconut milk, but this dessert works beautifully with fresh coconut milk, especially the first press. The texture may be slightly lighter, but the flavour is fresher and more fragrant. If needed, simply cook a little longer while stirring to reach your preferred consistency.

Serve plain or topped with a sprinkle of nutmeg, toasted coconut flakes, or fresh fruit.

Fresh coconut milk is one of those simple kitchen skills that makes every dish taste more Caribbean. Once you try it, you might give the canned version some serious side-eye. LOL.

Happy Cooking! 

The Grey-Haired Gardener

Using Eggshells in the Garden: A Simple, Smart, Sustainable Choice

 These eggshells have been rinsed, dried/ baked in the oven and now ready for grinding

I’ve always saved my eggshells. Not because I expect miracles, but because they feel like one of those quiet garden habits that just makes sense. Over the years, though, I’ve noticed eggshells get talked about as if they’re some kind of instant fix for every plant problem under the sun—and that’s where expectations can go sideways.

Used thoughtfully, eggshells do have a place in the garden. Just not in the way they’re often hyped. This post is about how I use them, what they actually do, and why they fit so nicely into a simple, smart, sustainable gardening approach.

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What eggshells actually are

Eggshells are made mostly of calcium carbonate. Calcium is important for plant health, but here’s the key thing to remember: eggshells break down slowly. Very slowly.

That means they’re best thought of as a long-term soil support material, not a quick plant tonic. Once you look at them that way, they start to make a lot more sense.

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What eggshells are good for

Used properly, eggshells can be genuinely helpful:

• They contribute calcium gradually as they break down

• They’re a useful addition to compost piles

• Finely crushed shells add a bit of grit and structure to soil

• They support overall soil health over time

The common thread here is patience. Eggshells work quietly in the background, not on a deadline.

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What eggshells don’t do

This is where things often get muddled.

Eggshells:

• Don’t fix blossom end rot overnight

• Don’t replace good watering habits or balanced soil care

• Don’t do much at all when tossed into the garden whole

Calcium issues in plants are often linked to inconsistent watering, not a lack of calcium in the soil itself. Adding eggshells won’t solve that kind of problem on the spot.

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🥚 Eggshell Myth, Gently Busted

Myth: Eggshells instantly fix blossom end rot.
Reality: Eggshells break down slowly. Blossom end rot is usually caused by irregular watering rather than a calcium deficiency in the soil.

Eggshells support soil health over time—but they’re not an emergency treatment.

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How I prepare my eggshells

This part makes all the difference.

I collect my eggshells, rinse them well, and then bake them in the oven. Baking kills any bacteria, dries them completely and makes them easier to grind. Once cooled, I grind them in the food processor until they’re well crushed.

This step matters. The finer the shells, the faster they’ll begin to break down and interact with the soil.

I aim for a gritty texture, but you can grind the eggshells finer. It's a matter of personal choice

I crush my eggshells using a mini food processor

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How I use eggshells in my garden

Most of my crushed eggshells end up in the compost, where they have plenty of time to do their slow, steady work.

Occasionally, I also use finely ground shells directly in the garden. I sprinkle them lightly in beds and, in some cases, around particularly tender plants. I’ve noticed that the gritty texture seems to discourage slugs from lingering—especially around juicy new cattleya roots. It’s not something I present as a guaranteed solution, just a practical observation from my own garden.

As with most things, moderation is key. Eggshells are a supporting player, not the main act.

Adding a little ground eggshell helps to deter slugs in my garden. This has worked for me. No harm in trying it in your garden

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When eggshells make sense (and when they don’t)

Eggshells are most useful:

• In long-term garden beds

• As part of compost or ongoing soil improvement

• When you’re thinking seasons ahead, not days

They’re less helpful:

• In containers that need quick nutrients

• When plants are already stressed and need immediate attention

Seen in the right context, they’re a quiet but worthwhile habit.

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A simple, smart, sustainable choice

Using eggshells won’t transform your garden overnight. What they will do is help close the loop—returning something from the kitchen back to the soil instead of sending it to the bin.

That’s the kind of gardening I aim for: simple, smart, and sustainable. Small choices, made consistently, with a long view in mind. 

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💬 Let’s talk

Do you use eggshells in your garden? I’d love to hear how—or what you’ve found works better for you.

 Happy Gardening! 🥚

 The Grey-Haired Gardener

Kumquats: The Citrus You Eat Skin and All

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I’ll admit it—I check my kumquats every single day.
Not because I don’t trust them, but because watching them slowly colour up on the tree is one of those small garden joys that never gets old.

If you’ve ever wondered what a kumquat is, how to grow one, or when it’s actually ready to pick, this tiny citrus deserves a closer look.

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What Exactly Is a Kumquat?

Kumquats are small citrus fruits, but they break all the usual citrus rules.
Instead of peeling them, you eat them whole—skin and all.

The peel is sweet, the flesh is tart, and together they create a surprisingly balanced flavour. They’re bite-sized, bright, and once you get used to them, a little addictive.

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Why Kumquats Are Perfect for Home Gardens

One of the things I love most about kumquats is how well they behave in small spaces.

They are:

• Naturally compact

• Very productive for their size

• Excellent for container growing

• Well-suited to patios, balconies, and small gardens

Even a single tree can carry a generous crop, which makes kumquats a great choice for home gardeners who want fruit without needing a large yard.

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A Quick Garden Note: Seeds vs Grafted Plants

This is worth knowing if you’re tempted to plant a seed.

Kumquats are not reliably true to type when grown from seed. That means a seed-grown plant may not produce fruit identical to the parent—flavour, size, and quality can vary.

My tree is grafted. I started with a cutting from a fellow gardener and grafted it onto Cleopatra Mandarin rootstock. The graft took, and the tree has been healthy and productive ever since.

Grafted plants are generally the better option if you want consistent results and good fruit quality.

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Growing Kumquats: The Basics

Kumquats are not fussy, but they do have a few non-negotiables.

Sun:
They love bright, full sun.

Water:
Regular watering is important, especially for potted plants, but good drainage is essential. Soggy roots and citrus do not get along.

Soil:
Well-draining soil is key. Whether in the ground or in a pot, drainage makes all the difference.

Feeding:
A citrus-friendly fertilizer keeps the leaves healthy and supports flowering and fruiting.

They grow well in tropical climates like the Caribbean and are also popular with gardeners in temperate regions.

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Flowering, Fruiting, and Patience

Citrus teaches patience.

After flowering, small green fruits appear and then take their time slowly developing and changing colour. It’s normal to see green, yellow-orange, and fully orange fruit on the tree at the same time.

Resist the urge to rush the harvest—kumquats reward patience.

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How to Know When Kumquats Are Ready to Pick

This is the part everyone asks about.

A ripe kumquat will:

• Be fully orange in colour

• Feel slightly soft when gently squeezed

• Come off the branch easily

• Smell citrusy and fresh

Picking too early usually means a very sour surprise. I let mine fully colour up on the tree—and yes, I check them daily.

This is also when a quiet happy garden dance may occur.

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How to Eat and Use Kumquats

Kumquats are wonderfully versatile.

You can:

• Eat them fresh, whole, and unpeeled

• Add them to salads

• Make preserves or marmalade

• Candy them

• Use them for juice or infused water

They’re one of those fruits that feel fancy but are actually very simple.

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Common Kumquat Growing Mistakes

A few things to avoid:

• Harvesting too early

• Overwatering, especially in pots

• Poor drainage

• Not enough sunlight

Get those right, and kumquats are surprisingly forgiving.

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Final Thoughts

Kumquats may be small, but they bring a lot to the garden—beauty, flavour, and a steady sense of anticipation as they ripen.

If you’re looking for a citrus that’s productive, compact, and just a little bit different, kumquats are well worth growing.

And if you find yourself checking them every day?
Welcome to the club 🍊🌱

 Happy Gardening! 🍊

 The Grey-Haired Gardener 

Southern Blight: Why Plants Suddenly Wilt (and What I Do)

                                                    Rotting at the  soil level is one classical symptom of southern blight

Southern blight is one of the most frustrating problems I deal with in my garden here in Trinidad. Plants look healthy one day… and collapse the next—even when the soil is moist.

How I know it’s Southern Blight

I look right at the soil line. The signs are usually there:

• Sudden wilting

• Soft rot at the base of the stem

• White, fluffy growth around the stem

• Tiny tan or brown “mustard seed” balls on the soil

Once I see this, the plant rarely recovers.

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What Causes Southern Blight?

It’s caused by a soil fungus that loves:

• Heat

• Humidity

• Poor drainage

The fungus can survive in soil for years, so quick action really matters.

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What I Do Right Away

To stop it from spreading:

• Remove infected plants completely (roots and all)

• Don’t compost them—bag and dispose

• Clean tools after handling infected plants

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How I Manage It Long-Term

1️⃣ Improve Drainage

Southern blight thrives in wet soil.

• Space plants well

• Avoid mulch touching stems

• Water at the base, not overhead

2️⃣ Use Limestone Carefully

Southern blight prefers acidic soil.

• Limestone raises pH and discourages the fungus

• It also adds calcium and helps clay soil over time

Here in Trinidad, fine limestone (like Enlasa’s) works quickly because it dissolves fast.

Tip: Work it into the soil and water it in. Keep it away from plant stems.

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3️⃣ Build Better Soil

Clay soil + moisture = trouble.
I add organic matter regularly:

• Compost

• Aged manure

• Leaf mould

  Adding compost helps build better soil                 Credit: Greta Hoffman on Pexels.com

Raised or slightly mounded beds help a lot—especially for bodi, tomatoes, and sorrel.

Raised beds help to drain excess water from roots        

Credit: Helena Lopes on Pexels.com

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4️⃣ Rotate Crops

I avoid planting susceptible crops in the same spot every season.
Better options include:

• Corn

• Chives

• Amaranthus(Bhaji)

• Cassava and sweet potato

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The Takeaway

Southern blight is tough—but manageable.

What works best in my garden:
✔ Fast removal
✔ Better drainage
✔ Limestone (in moderation)
✔ Healthy soil

Once the soil improves, the plants do too 🌱

 Happy Gardening!

 The Grey-Haired Gardener

Periwinkles (Vinca): The Flower That Almost Grows Itself

Looking for non-stop colour with very little effort?

Periwinkles — also called vinca (or “old maid,” as we grew up calling it) — are one of the easiest, most reliable flowering plants you can grow.

They love heat, shrug off drought, and bloom like they’re paid by the flower.

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🌸 Why Grow Periwinkles?

• Thrive in full sun & hot weather

• Bloom continuously

• Perfect for beds, borders & pots

• Low-maintenance and beginner-friendly

• Available in white, pink, red, lavender, magenta & bicolours

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☀️ Sun & Soil

• Full sun = best flowering

• Well-drained soil is essential

• Avoid soggy ground (they hate wet feet)

  

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💧 Watering

• Water regularly when young

• Once established, water sparingly

• Overwatering causes more problems than underwatering

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🌱 Feeding

• Light, balanced fertilizer every 4–6 weeks

• Too much fertilizer, especially Nitrogen = leaves, not flowers

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✂️ Propagation

From seed: Easy in warm conditions
From cuttings: Snip, strip lower leaves, plant — roots form quickly

Seed pods along the mature stem             Seed pods and tiny black periwinkle seeds 

Recently thinned out Periwinkle seedlings in a seedling tray

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🐛 Pests & Problems

• Aphids on new growth

• Spider mites in very dry weather

• Root rot from overwatering

Good drainage prevents most issues.

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🌼 Simple Care Tip

Trim leggy plants occasionally for bushier growth — no deadheading required.

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🌿 Final Thoughts

If you want colour without commitment, periwinkles are hard to beat.
They’re tough, cheerful, and bloom through heat that makes other plants give up.

Happy garden dance! 💃🌸

The Grey-Haired Gardener

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